A Decade Together

Ten years ago today, Linda and I formalized what we had already known for some time: that we were so much better together, and wanted to always keep it that way. It was so obvious that there was never a marriage proposal by either of us; we knew that it was what we both wanted.

Looking back, it seems that we were so young, even though we were in our late 50s:

Linda and Ed posing just after being married.
Just after being married, January 16, 2016

We may be older now, but we’re still going strong! Here’s to the next 10 years!

Ed and Linda pose for a selfie in downtown Fortaleza, Brazil, in October 2025
Ed and Linda in Fortaleza, Brazil, October 2025

Working With AI

It’s been impossible to not have been bombarded with all the hype about AI ever since ChatGPT. There are now several powerful LLM tools available, and one of the claims is that they can write software better than human programmers. As a software developer myself, and one who’s been doing this kind of thing for longer than many of my colleagues have been alive, you might understand my skepticism.

Before I retired, NVIDIA gave all of its employees access to Perplexity Pro, so that’s the LLM I have the most experience with, but I have tried several others. At first I would ask it to write some Python code to replicate a problem I had already solved, to get a feel for how well it did. Most of the time the solution it provided worked, but just didn’t feel “elegant” – it was much more like a beginner would create. But it did work in most cases.

You may have heard the term “vibe coding” used to describe a non-developer using AI to write code. I have tried that, and the results were spotty at best. I decided to write an app for my iPhone that would be useful when practicing disc golf by measuring the distance of a throw. I had no experience with writing Swift or developing with SwiftUI, so it was about as close to vibe coding as I could imagine.

The process was surprisingly quick: it gave me the basics I would need to set up the app, get the mapping tools working, and implementing buttons. It wasn’t smooth sailing, though, as Perplexity would suggest code that was for different versions of Swift, and they would throw errors. I could then copy those errors and paste them back into the “conversation” with Perplexity, and it would respond with a correction (usually preceded by an apology – nice touch!). I did get something working in a couple of days, so I would say it was a success. Adding additional features, such as voice interaction, proved to be a much tougher endeavor; there were just too many incompatibilities that were hit as it tried to write the more complex interactions.

So based on my meager experimental sample of 1, I would say that vibe coding works, but only for the simplest of cases. It felt like asking a machine to design a house: sure, it could probably come up with something boxy that would work, but once you tried to add some style, it would probably mix things up. It’s a language processor, after all, and doesn’t actually understand anything.

Where I’ve found AI to be helpful is when I need to write some code in a language or environment that I don’t work in often, or solve a strange bug. Let me give you an example from yesterday.

I’ve hosted technical email lists on my servers for over 25 years, and I maintain an archive of every message. It’s all automated and generally works well. Each month it analyzes the previous month’s traffic, and posts a summary.

The June summary for the ProFox list came out on July 1, and it was missing most of the messages for that month. I investigated, and found a problem with the archive software that was pretty straightforward to correct. The problem was that I no longer had the original messages to add back to the archive. Some subscribers did, so I was able to add them back – except for one.

The error was clear enough: the text had a smiley emoji, and the MariaDB database column that holds the text of the message was defined with utf8 encoding. Emojis require multibyte (utf8mb4) encoding, so I ran the ALTER TABLE command to change the encoding. This took almost an hour, as the table has over a half-million records that needed to be re-encoded, but when it completed, I confidently re-ran the command to add the message, but once again it failed – with the exact same error! So I turned to Perplexity, fed it the table structure and the error, and it quickly came back with a solution: not only did the column need to be utf8mb4, the entire table has to be defined with that encoding. So once again I ran ALTER TABLE, but it took over 2 hours this time.

When it finally finished, I re-ran the command, and once again it failed, with the exact same message! I read Perplexity’s answer once again, and noticed that I had missed one part of it: defining the connection in pymysql. I needed to also tell the connection to use the correct charset:

    conn = pymysql.connect(
        host=HOST,
        user=creds["DB_USERNAME"],
        passwd=creds["DB_PWD"],
        db=db,
        cursorclass=cls,
        charset="utf8mb4",     <========
        use_unicode=True,      <========
    )Code language: PHP (php)

I had never added those parameters before, as they were never needed – it worked fine with the defaults. But once I added them, the command to add the message worked flawlessly! So in this case, Perplexity saved the day. I’m sure I would have figured it out eventually, but this was so much faster, as Perplexity runs multiple searches on the web and analyzes the responses in order to come up with its answer to your question.

And that’s what machines will always be better at than humans: doing multiple things at once. I could have run those searches, but going through the results to see which matched what I needed would have taken a whole lot longer than what Perplexity could do. That’s the sweet spot for coding with AI: not having it design your application or its interface, but solving those edge case bugs that would take you a much longer time to figure out.

Letting Go

In my early 20s I got interested in working with my hands building things. I read everything I could find (remember, this is long before YouTube existed; you had to get actual books!) This led to a career of renovating houses that lasted over a decade.

When I first got some tools I wanted to start on something, but like a blank screen staring back at you when you try to write, the problem was where to start. Then one day I was driving along and saw an old, beat-up desk by the curb. It just so happened that I needed a desk for working on my brand-new Apple IIc, so I managed to get it into the trunk of my Mercury Capri, which needed lots of rope to keep it from falling out.

When I got it home I began stripping it down to the wood, as well as fixing some loose parts. I sanded it smooth, gave it a couple of coats of polyurethane, and fitted it with new hardware. It looked great, if I do say so myself.

Over the years that little desk has been used one way or another in every house I lived in—but not any more. There simply isn’t space for it in our new house. Not that the house is small, but it’s very old and the room shapes simply don’t leave room for it. So today when Goodwill Home Pickup came to clear out the furniture we couldn’t take with us, it was among the items they took.

My old desk being loaded into a truck
Goodbye, old friend!

I would say that 40 years of service after being tossed to the curb is quite impressive. It’s still in great shape, so I hope whoever gets it next can make use of it for many more years to come.

Lasts

Today we move from the house we’ve lived in for the last 9 years into a new house that we feel will be better for us in the long run. We’re both looking forward to the change, even though it’s a lot of work.

One thing that keeps popping into my head over the past 24 hours is that this will be the last time…

…that I go to sleep in this room.

…that I carry out my morning coffee making routine.

…that I bake sourdough in this oven.

…that I lock the house up for the night.

You get it. None of these are traumatic at all; instead, they are kind of bittersweet. If we hadn’t been happy in this house, I would be feeling the opposite: so glad that this is the last time…!

Start Anywhere

Breaking the ice. Blank page syndrome.

I haven’t written in this blog for some time now, and I’ve been wanting to get back into it, but I didn’t want to approach it as strictly some sort of diary. Instead, something more akin to stream-of-consciousness: whatever is on my mind at the time. I still struggle with perfectionism, as mentioned before, but I think I’m getting better at that.

Why now? I think because I retired a month ago, and that’s a fairly big life event. Not only do I have more time on my hands, I also have a lot of thoughts that have perked up in the past that once again spring to mind. My hope is to be able to write about them instead of just letting them fade away once more.

There probably won’t be too much technical content, as I’m not engaged in the world of tech as I had been when employed. I still like coding, though, and have started working on updating a very old project: Dabo. It was first developed in 2003, but has been stagnant for at least the last decade. It’s an amusing enough of an endeavor to hold my attention, and I have no expectations for it. Just something to keep the brain sharp.